Jen’s work makes me feel safe, seen, proudly queer, and proudly woman, encompassing all the facets.”

Her vulnerability contrasted with her self-containment provides an accessible, prescient education that is simultaneously not indulgent and delightfully pleasurable. “Jen Winston has been unlearning and learning anew and sharing that experience for over a decade. This book inspires us to rethink the world as we know it, reminding us that Greedy was a superpower all along. Greedy shows us that being bisexual is about so much more than who you’re sleeping with-it’s about finding stability in a state of flux and defining yourself on your own terms.

She sheds light on the reasons women, queer people, and other marginalized groups tend to make ourselves smaller, provoking the question: What would happen if we suddenly stopped? With her clever voice and clear-eyed insight, Jen draws on personal experiences with sexism and biphobia to understand how we all can and must do better. Greedy follows Jen’s attempts to make sense of herself as she explores the role of the male gaze, what it means to be “queer enough,” and how to overcome bi stereotypes when you’re the posterchild for all of them: greedy, slutty, and constantly confused. Jen’s provocative, laugh-out-loud debut takes us inside her journey of self-discovery, leading us through stories of a childhood “girl crush,” an onerous quest to have a threesome, and an enduring fear of being bad at sex. Or wait-maybe she isn’t? Actually, she definitely is.

If Jen Winston knows one thing for sure, it’s that she’s bisexual. Perfect for fans of Lindy West, Samantha Irby, and Rebecca Solnit-and anyone who wants, and deserves, to be seen. Named one of the Best Books of 2021 by Oprah Daily, Glamour, Shondaland, BuzzFeed, and more!Ī hilarious and whip-smart collection of essays, offering an intimate look at bisexuality, gender, and, of course, sex.

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